In Sex Which Race is Better, White or Black?

I recently had a encounter with a Nigerian man who had married a white British woman, and before you begin going for the old he married her for the passport joke, let me assure you he is a British citizen and does not need that.

During our discussion we inevitably landed on the path of why he married this white woman, and he's answer was that white women have less sexual inhibitions and are more likely to initiate sex. As a sex counsellor I had to comment that this is not the case, that both of the things he mentioned is actually based on confidence and comfort level, to which he replied 'the white woman already has the confidence in her sex and sexuality, I don't have the energy to be chasing born again virgin'.

Our conversation continued until another Nigerian man joined us, now he had married a Nigerian woman and he's take was that he did not want a woman who knew more than he did in bed, because it stands to reason that she has had many partners and he did not want 'aloku aso' second hand clothes. For this man the black woman who is willing to be led and who is willing to learn only from him is best.

The conversation took a more interesting turn when 2 women joined us, one was white and the other black, and as you can imagine, the question of size made a play, are black men really bigger than white and is there a difference in the sex.

The consensus among the women was that it wasn't so much that the black men were bigger, but instead it felt 'firmer' and while the white men were softer they seemed better able to use, manipulate and ask for direction, something the black men in their experience were disinclined to do .

So the question is, in the practice of sex, is black really better or is white the way to go?