Friday, 13 April 2012

Tips and Tricks for going Down on HER.


A friend of mine when they saw the guide to BJ’s asked me ‘when will you write about going down onto the altar of SHE’.  Now being a woman and a woman who believes that every good turn deserves another here are a few tips and trick for making her feel loved, wanted and howling all night long.

Going down on a woman is not a just plug and play routine, there is a lot of teasing, licking and just plain loving that is required.
1.       The first approach to a woman’s pussy could be with your fingers, which you use to stimulate and feel around lightly.  This has a 2 way appeal, one it shows how wet she is the second is allow you to roll her clit in your hands.
2.       Make you way down and when you approach with your mouth lick lightly around the labia (the outer part) and explore layer by layer.  Do not just stick your mouth on the pussy and suck like you are looking for candy that comes later.
3.       Use your tongue to guide you to the clitoris, and lightly lick it, you can also use your nose to nuzzle before you get there just as a light stimulant, you can also at this time apply some more suction to the clit at this time
4.       Its important to hold her legs apart because clasp of a woman’s thighs against the head can be vice like
5.       After exploring the outside put your tongue inside her and lick/ suck in alternative motions
6.       Putting of your finger inside her when you are sucking her clitoris is also encouraged but to really get her going insert you finger into the pussy and curve it forward, you will feel a spongy pad about 3cm up press on this lightly, you just found the G spot!
7.       The clit is not a chew toy, it’s a nerve and like all nerves if you get on it something will hurt, so deep breaths, long licks, and deep thrusts with the tongue

Women,
Some home truths

Just like it’s disgusting to give a BJ to a man who doesn’t understand the concept of personal hygiene, the same goes for women, clean it out.
Just because you clean it out does not mean you flood it with perfume, spraying on perfume on your pussy can encourage yeast infections. Also the spraying of perfume on your pussy can be painful and is bitter when your partner goes down on you.
When he hold your leg apart, I know its hard not to want to crush his face to you, but remember he's only human and you want him there again
Finally if he isn’t doing it the way you like it, tell him, if you want more penetration, more licking or sucking, talk.


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