So for those of you who missed out on our wonderful radio shop on http://radio.zoodrums.com Friday 5-9pm Nigerian time, (its online radio by the way so you can even listen from your smartphone if you have a data connection) you missed the wonderful guide to giving a good blow job.
However I figured why should you miss out, so here is a quick guide to giving and receiving a great BJ. Having the required skill in giving a good blow job is a pre requisite for all modern women, I know its not the thing to say to most people, but nothing will destroy the fun of sex than giving a sloppy blow job or choking on a penis as you try the dangerous deep throat.
So are you sitting comfortably, lets begin the lesson.
1. A good BJ is all about the lubrication, if your mouth is dry, so will your throat and you will not be able to achieve the sliding motion needed.
2. Its always a good idea to begin by licking the tip of the penis and blowing lightly into the little hole on top, this is a starter, despite what they call it, this is probably the only blowing you will be doing during the BJ, its more a suction thing.
3. Slide down the shaft with your mouth as comfortably as you can and pull back by suctioning your mouth. You have to keep the suction going as you go up and down with your head, you can also be licking the tip of the penis while its in your mouth.
4. When you are in the above stage, if you are unable to deep throat the man, I would suggest putting your hand in a medium to firm grip on the base on the penis which means that if the man does the pushing your head down you have a stop gap in place.
5. The suctioning after a while can become tiring, at this point, remove your mouth from the penis and lick along the shaft, like a lollipop, encircle the tip and slid down again. You might also want to be playing with the balls at this time, gentle tickles, slight rolling in your hands, do not squeeze it like an orange, this is a very sensitive part of a man’s body.
6. Alternate between sucking, licking, using your hand to massage the shaft, tickling the balls and if you want to tea bagging. Tea bagging is the putting of the balls in your mouth licking it and playing of it in your mouth.
7. As the penis becomes more engorged you will want to change from the slower softer movements that you might have been doing about to shaper, shorter movements ( a lot more head bobbing), for those of you who are into deep throat, you might also push forward into this because the penis is now stiff enough not to be a problem with ingesting.
8. Hum, humming with the penis in the mouth produces a vibrating effect that is hits certain key nerves at the tip of the penis
9. Keep lubricated through the use of water (stopping to take a swig or two) and lubes during this period because a blow job can take anything from 10 – 30 mins depending on your partner and a dry mouth is like sand paper on your vagina.
10. Have fun. There is nothing more depressing for your or the person you are giving a blow job to have a miserable, face going down. Enjoy, relax and remember that you went down and he has to reciprocate.
For guys a few quick tips on what not to do when you are receiving a BJ,
Do not grab her head and shove it down your dick
Guide her, but don’t criticize, if she’s not doing it well, its okay to tell her what you like
When all is said and done and you have enjoyed the BJ, reciprocate, good deeds should be rewarded.
So now we have done the BJ’s next we’ll talk about the bowing at her altar of pleasure.
i think we have to update this write up .
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