Often as women get older (40’s and above), they begin to feel that they are losing the sensual feeling that they once had when they were young. To some this has to do with the fact that they are no longer being chatted up by men the way they used to, also it might be the proliferation of younger woman that now become more a staple than incidental.
The interesting thing about age however is that the 2 sexes reach their sexual peak at different ages and as women get older the more sexual they are. Men reach their peak in their 20’s (difficult to believe with the randy nature of some older men) and women reach their peak in their 40’s, however with a mixture of hormones possible due to menopause or just the general stress of day to day life, the urge to get busy is just not forthcoming.
If you are in the above stage, I would suggest a few steps to make things more exciting and that can help you perk things up in all areas:
First I would suggest that you go to your doctor to check if you have begun going through menopause, I know that that seems to be a default answer but this is important to determine if there is a medical reason for your loss of libido.
Second are you in a relationship that encourages you to experiment and try out new things this can also be an issue if you are not able to express that sensual self with the person you are with
Third how well do you know your body, it’s a good idea to try and find out what turns you on again, if you don’t ,know what turns you on, how can you get the sensual feeling back.
This like all things is not a quick fix answer and we must consider if there are underlaying issues not just the above that is affecting your lower libido levels.
Altogether you are a beautiful and sexy woman and you deserve to feel all those sensual feeling you know you have in you.
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