She’s hairy but I like it!

I once had a client who told me of his fetish for hairy girls, I mean it wasn’t enough that they has hair on their arms, and were furry down there, no he wanted them fully covered, armpit, legs, no bikini shaving/ waxing in fact if she had chest hair it was an added bonus, and to see this man you would never guess. 6ft 1inc, toned, built and loaded, and he has a furry fetish
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Another had a thing for women best described as Hottentots, small tops (like size 8’s) and enormous backsides (size 22).  For him the bigger she was from the waist down, the better, he loved the cellulite the puckering and the fat. 

Finally one that surprises most people are men who like women with body odor, not slight it’s a hot day and she smells of body not perfume, but women who after they leave the room the odor stays for a few days and have a party.

I know, to many people what ive just described is disturbing, women with chest hair, women’s whose backside is still in the house when they are at work and women whose body odor has a life of its own, but there is a world out there of women who are like this and they are thriving and have partners, and are loved for themselves.

So what makes a woman most people would consider ‘just not right’, the right pick in the man/ woman games…........ Niche Marketing.

There’s a term known to the marketing sorts called niche marketing. Niche marketing is the subset of the market on which a specific product is focusing. So the market niche defines the specific product features aimed at satisfying specific market needs.

 This for those not concerned with product marketing, this simply means there are some things that attract a subset of society so if you have it, flaunt it, and throughout history these women considered by many others as not conventionally attractive due to the above is not a new phenomenon.

In China when women’s feet were bound, poets wrote long, lyrical poetry about the perfume of the rotten feet, because to them the smell of the feet is evocative of the smallness of feet, daintiness of the woman of course the smell that being such produces.

Throughout history, the hip endowed women have been noted as being of great attraction, because of their child bearing capability and also of key examples of what it means to be feminine.  In fact till today, it is said that men like women whose waists are at least 10 incs smaller than their hips because the more curvaceous shape is revealed.  To this end, the big hipped women continue to follow this ideology however to a much more conspicuous amount. After all, what other reason would western women of old  want to wear a bustle to give them a larger backside or an antebellum ball gown to give them wider hips.

The one that most men however rarely want to admit to, is their love of a hairy woman, they believe that admitting to liking such women says something about their sexuality. The truth however is much simpler, if you are to believe science we are all descended from apes, and the feeling of fur/ hair can be both comforting and erotic, after all, which woman hasn’t given some sort of hair job.

Accepting yourself

If you are any of the above women who is yet to understand and accept the power of her uniqueness, here are a few tips to help in the process and also give you the upper hand.

1.       If you have it flaunt it -  this does seem like a bad idea particularly if we are talking body odor, but the truth is that some issues of odor has to do with your glands and there is little to nothing that can be done about it, so own it and deal with it.If it bothers you change it – While odor can be fixed to some degree (baths 3 times a day, use of antiperspirant, and carrying of perfume and antiperspirant to help with the smell) other things such as a large hip cannot be changed, but it can be dressed well to reduce the prominence. For a hairy chest, waxing, or electrolysis can reduce this and give you the smoother chest you want, but only if you want this, don’t do it to make someone else happy.

Finally its not enough that someone loves you, you have to love yourself, start with that and the rest as they say is only a drop in the ocean of your life.

She’s my spec and that’s it

Many men feel very uncomfortable admitting to their predilection for the above type of women, and since men as a whole like to date women that they believe their friends would like to date, not necessarily the sort of women they like, its difficult to admit that the type of woman you like is not typical. Irrespective of this, the important thing is that if you like these women, don’t be ashamed of it, they are your spec, and if she makes you happy, whose concern but yours is it what she looks or smells like!