It’s no surprise to any man out there or woman out there
when they hear their single female friend say that its hard to find a good man.
Don’t get me wrong, it is hard to find a man that fulfils all the realistic and
unrealistic goals some women have in their mind but what does one say when a
woman is maybe double or triple dating a man. Why would a woman with one good
man continue looking and juggling more than one man.
Let me blow a myth that maybe you are not told, most women
are juggling more than one man, even those that are not in a relationship are
juggling more than one man, because to some extent women are greedy (you know
you are even if you are not sleeping with the guy you are getting emotional
succor from them). Women want to be satisfied on an emotional, sexual and
financial level and most men while too busy being the big man around forgets
one of those options and end up as one of the ring a ring a roses guy or with
blue balls.
I love him but he is meaner than a closed clam! – Financial
I don’t care who the woman is, if she is a Nigerian woman,
she wants financial security. Don’t get me wrong this does not mean she isn’t
working, but she wants to know that her money will be hers and yours will be
ours. Now if you are one of those stingy men that is holding sex over her head
before you show your hand, you will maybe get laid just enough times for you to
be hooked and bring out that money, however once the money is out she will
sting you so hard the blue balls will look like a Christmas tree while she is
dating man who is open handed and gives great head!
Besides on an off point, a man who is stingy with money is
stingy with sex, he is only in it for his own pleasure and since that is the
case, take him for what you can and while he’s dangling see what else you can
get!
He gets me wet but
can’t give me head! – Sexual
Let me say that not all women actually like receiving head,
just like not all men like getting a blow job. Now don’t get me wrong, its not
that its not pleasurable all in all, but it doesn’t get them off. However of
the ¾ of women who do enjoy getting head a man who spends all the money on the
world on a woman but doesn’t know how to get down and do some waxing is setting
himself up to be a money man while another man is getting all the enjoyment she
has to offer.
Many women will tell you when you meet them that they want
financial security but what they tell their girlfriends is that they want the
money but they also wants a man who can get busy and use his mouth and tongue
with pleasure and dexterity.
If you don’t want to be the sucker who thinks he’s getting
good sex while the other guy is getting fantabulous sex, then be willing to not
just pay the cash but also tip the velvet.
He has the emotional intelligence of a constipated duck -
Emotions
Many men don’t understand how easily they lose their women
because they just cannot listen, empathize or remember to keep their dicks in
their pants. Not to go all gung ho, but why do you think very ugly, little men
manage to get those wonderful, effervescent girls, it not just because they
bought them a drink; it’s also because they listen and have a good
conversation.
You would be surprised the amount of women who have ended up
bringing another man into their relationship because he satisfied the emotional
need. I’m not saying love (this is slightly chemical, rationalization and realization),
I’m saying taking the time to listen to her bitch and moan about work, life,
friendship, the new shoes she saw, the stress of driving in Lagos, you name it
he listened and now he’s the third person in your relationship.
The truth is as much as women say a good man is hard to find
(and it is because you need to be all the above) it’s also difficult to find a
good woman (because to be honest do you have the patience), but if you are
willing to take the chance and do the above that girl who has been juggling you
like a moo moo, is about to become the BEST, lay, love and partner you ever
had.
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